{"id":5753,"date":"2022-02-02T21:12:00","date_gmt":"2022-02-03T01:12:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/followgreg.com\/ftravel\/?p=5753"},"modified":"2023-02-24T21:13:45","modified_gmt":"2023-02-25T01:13:45","slug":"my-quest-for-a-meeting-free-year","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/followgreg.com\/ftravel\/2022\/02\/02\/my-quest-for-a-meeting-free-year\/","title":{"rendered":"My Quest for a Meeting-Free Year"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image alignfull size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"899\" height=\"600\" src=\"https:\/\/followgreg.com\/ftravel\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/1643831903345.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5754\" srcset=\"https:\/\/followgreg.com\/ftravel\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/1643831903345.jpg 899w, https:\/\/followgreg.com\/ftravel\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/1643831903345-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/followgreg.com\/ftravel\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/1643831903345-666x444.jpg 666w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 899px) 100vw, 899px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>There\u2019s a scene in HBO Max\u2019s new \u201cStation Eleven\u201d adaptation that spooked me. The world-shattering pandemic and its human toll certainly struck a chord \u2014&nbsp;but what really hit me was something else. It was the character Jim, persevering through an \u201cimportant\u201d business pitch as the world and the fabric of society crumbles outside the glass-encased conference room. Other characters call out the absurdity, but he persists.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The scene resonated with me because we\u2019ve all been there. Sure, we may not have clicked through a slide deck mid-apocalypse, but we\u2019ve all felt the pull of a meeting we can\u2019t turn down. There may be a thousand other things to do, but the invisible thread of that calendar invite pulls us away from them all. Meetings can be many things: social capital for the \u201cprofessionally busy,\u201d a topic for jokes about their futility, a chance to see our coworkers face to face. But how often are they useful?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We often lament the \u201cmeeting that could have been an email,\u201d but added together, these meetings are more than just nuisances. They\u2019re a waste of valuable time, taking precious hours from people\u2019s days. If I have 10 \u201cjust because\u201d 1:1s a week, that\u2019s five hours spent in purposeless meetings. With flat fees, it doesn\u2019t affect our billability, but it\u2019s still time you can\u2019t get back.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Part of the engine powering our meeting-clogged world is hustle culture, which seems to glorify a packed calendar above any actual work accomplished. This mindset comes from a real place, derived from a business world where appearing busy is more important than doing meaningful work. While full-calendar syndrome haunts businesses across industries, it\u2019s not irreversible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This year, I\u2019m making it a priority to place higher value on people\u2019s time \u2014 and empowering our team to do the same. I\u2019ve spoken before about blocking off \u201cthinking time\u201d and&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.fastcompany.com\/90555661\/im-a-ceo-and-nap-during-every-workday-heres-why-you-should-too\">mid-day naps<\/a>, but it\u2019s time to take things a step further. I\u2019m excited to kick-start a culture that celebrates empty calendars and ending meetings early. Upon inspection, you might conclude that 100% of your meetings are immovable, job-critical gatherings. But I\u2019m betting that for most, this isn\u2019t the case. My personal challenge: Can I get to a place where I have no meetings at all?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I know a meeting-free year isn\u2019t wholly practical, but it\u2019s also more realistic than it appears. I don\u2019t want to cut out all meetings, I want to cut out&nbsp;<em>those&nbsp;<\/em>meetings \u2014 you know the ones. The goal isn\u2019t to avoid my team, but to focus on using time wisely, trusting employees and being intentional with how we spend our days. Here\u2019s what I\u2019m thinking about as I imagine the possibilities of an empty-calendar lifestyle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Valuing Time<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Early in my career, a supervisor prepared me for a presentation with a piece of advice: \u201cFind a way to say something.\u201d The goal was to get noticed and project the appearance of a valuable contributor. It wasn\u2019t important&nbsp;<em>what<\/em>&nbsp;I said, as long as I said something.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Looking back, this moment encapsulates so many issues with the business status quo. The fact is, people whose personality types make it easy for them to weigh in are rewarded, often at the cost of better-performing staff members who don\u2019t work in the same way. This idea also shows that frequently, meetings are more about giving an appearance of productivity than completing real work. And the truth is obvious \u2014 most important work happens outside of meetings. So why are we wasting time talking about it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This paradigm shift can be challenging, but it\u2019s helpful to fall back on the design thinking principle of \u201cquestion everything.\u201d If I\u2019m invited to a meeting, I ask myself:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Is there a clear agenda?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>If yes, is my presence needed?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>If yes, do I need to make decisions or contribute?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>If yes, could this be a one-on-one discussion?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>This helps interrupt the impulse to automatically accept invites. If I don\u2019t need to make decisions or contribute, my presence isn\u2019t needed \u2014 and often, a group meeting with a specific purpose would be more useful as a one-on-one meeting. If I have an announcement where I\u2019m not asking for the team\u2019s input, why does it make sense to assemble 50 people just to hear me talk? In this case, I\u2019ll send an email with messaging that opens the door to further conversation for anyone with questions. I\u2019m an extrovert who loves to talk and connect, but it\u2019s not fair to steal employees\u2019 time to do so.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Meeting-heavy workdays also breed dangerous perceptions and FOMO-driven negativity. Employees not invited to a meeting may feel out of the loop or compare themselves to those invited or worry that no invite means their own performance is being discussed. We get into trouble when meeting invites become an intra-organization status symbol, with special representatives plucked out to attend. Organizations benefit when \u201cWhy are we having this meeting?\u201d takes priority over \u201cWho should we invite?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Imagining Alternatives<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Many companies have begun examining their impulse for meetings, instituting policies like \u201cNo-meeting Fridays.\u201d That\u2019s a good start, but not enough. Rather than cordoning off a day that then shoehorns all meetings into the rest of the week, we need to shift the culture.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019d love to mirror Best Buy\u2019s&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.newyorker.com\/culture\/cultural-comment\/how-to-achieve-sustainable-remote-work\">results-only work environment<\/a>&nbsp;strategy of the early 2000s, which made meetings optional and moved focus \u201caway from surveillance and toward measurable results,\u201d as Cal Newport writes in the The New Yorker. Employees had almost complete freedom, with the expectation of hitting certain targets and full accountability. The program boosted employee happiness and productivity and cut turnover, until new leadership took over and steered the ship back toward the status quo.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Even if making all meetings optional isn\u2019t in our immediate future, I want to empower our team to place greater demands on their time. It\u2019s time to start placing the onus on meeting organizers to convince us why we should be there. Rather than get FOMO from meeting exclusion, I want my team to feel JOMO \u2014 the joy of missing out on purposeless, time-sucking activities. When I think of great novelists and creatives, I don\u2019t picture people scuttling from one conference room to another. They have their own process to get work done without a publisher stuffing their calendar with status meetings and check-ins.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s true that some employees need more structure, and for some we need to take a more active role in understanding their needs. But in my eyes, the answer is never more recurring meetings. This year, I\u2019ve removed every regularly scheduled 1:1 and replaced them with open office hours. Now, we can have productive conversations rather than simply meeting to check a box.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ultimately, meeting-free alternatives come down to trust. When I see team members with empty calendars, I still know they\u2019re getting work done. Frankly, I don\u2019t care if they\u2019re out getting groceries or going for a run, as long as they meet expectations. We don\u2019t all have to become recluses, but I encourage everyone to block off working time on their calendar. Get invited to a meeting that\u2019s \u201curgent?\u201d Make them prove it first.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Embracing the Empty Calendar<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Candidly, it\u2019s easy for me to skip meetings. I\u2019m the CEO: People tend to accommodate my schedule and respect my \u201cno\u201d on the invite. But as leaders, it\u2019s up to us to model this behavior and empower employees at every level to value their time. If I can cut even 10% of clutter from my team\u2019s calendar, it\u2019s worth it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I understand the allure of hustle culture and the superficial high of a calendar filled to the brim. There\u2019s validation that comes with feeling like Atlas with the world \u2014 or your department\u2019s performance \u2014 on your shoulders. But it&#8217;s a one-way track to burning out. It\u2019s time for organizations to stop rewarding employees who \u201cdo it all,\u201d and start valuing those who do it right.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After nearly two years of widespread remote work, the workforce demands better. Salary bumps and more vacation time are easy solutions, but we must also consider workplace culture. Leaders need to stick their neck out and experiment with new policies before their team asks. I\u2019ll make mistakes and adjust as I learn, but that\u2019s what I\u2019m trying to do.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Watching Jim present amid chaos, all you want to do is scream \u201cLeave!\u201d With such an extreme, the solution feels obvious. I think we can all agree that no one should be trapped in a pointless meeting as the world is ending. But why should we any other day?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There\u2019s a scene in HBO Max\u2019s new \u201cStation Eleven\u201d adaptation that spooked me. The world-shattering pandemic and its human toll &hellip; <span class=\"more-button\"><a href=\"https:\/\/followgreg.com\/ftravel\/2022\/02\/02\/my-quest-for-a-meeting-free-year\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue Reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">My Quest for a Meeting-Free Year<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5754,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wp_social_preview_title":"","wp_social_preview_description":"","wp_social_preview_image":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[78],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5753","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-leadership"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/followgreg.com\/ftravel\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5753","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/followgreg.com\/ftravel\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/followgreg.com\/ftravel\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/followgreg.com\/ftravel\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/followgreg.com\/ftravel\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5753"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/followgreg.com\/ftravel\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5753\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5755,"href":"https:\/\/followgreg.com\/ftravel\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5753\/revisions\/5755"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/followgreg.com\/ftravel\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5754"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/followgreg.com\/ftravel\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5753"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/followgreg.com\/ftravel\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5753"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/followgreg.com\/ftravel\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5753"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}